6 Different Ways to Play with His Cum

You’re fucking and he’s about to cum. There’s so many things you can do with his cum to turn this ordinary fuck sesh to a kinky one! If you’ve watched porn, you know there are tons of ways to end a session besides him cumming in you. Switching up the way you play with his cum can make the session you just had more rewarding to yourself and to your partner.

It can even make his orgasms feel more intense.

If my man doesn’t have a preference in what he wants me to do with his cum, I get creative with it. I love switching up the sessions by playing with his cum in different ways because it keeps my man on his toes. He never knows what I have up my sleeves in that moment.

How Society Makes you Feel vs How YOU Feel

Playing with his cum or seeing cum anywhere besides inside a pussy has a bad rep. It’s known to be degrading ( which it can be if that is part of your kink) and a way to objectify someone. Society has made us to believe this because of how it’s portrayed in mainstream porn. When you don’t see the feelings involved or the part where the woman consents to it, it can feel like that.

I feel empowered when I have the choice and control of where my man cums. I show that I’m confident in my choices when I do this which is how I want you to feel when you try these techniques. Forget what society has told you about cum, jizz, jism, whatever you want to call it. Instead think about how it makes you FEEL in the moment. Do you feel sexy? Do you feel powerful? Reclaim that erotic feeling that society has told us to be ashamed of this entire time.

Setting Boundaries

Often when there is a dom vs sub, people think the submissive have no control. It’s the complete opposite. As a submissive you have full control of what the dom can do to you. As long as you have a conversation about it before hand and your partner is not doing it out of nowhere, there is respect and control.

When you’re bringing kink into the bedroom, you should always set boundaries so there are no surprises from both ends. It is important you say something as soon as you’re uncomfortable to avoid having a hard time speaking up in the future. Remember to be confident in what you ask for and what you don’t want because it’s your choice. Speaking up will save you from so much shame afterwards and we all know how much we hate that feeling.

Play Safe

Before playing with cum, let’s begin by making sure your partner is clean from STDs. Unless you’re in a monogamous relationship you should be getting tested once a year. If not, you should be getting tested every 3- 6 months. While it is safe to swallow semen, WebMD says “The biggest risk when swallowing semen is getting a sexually transmitted infection. You can easily contract herpes, syphilis, and gonorrhea from performing oral sex.” You don’t want any of that! So get checked! This is essential to having the maximum fun!

Different Ways to Play with his Cum

1. Swallow!

Let’s face it, cum doesn’t taste good just like pussy juice doesn’t taste good. Whoever says it’s delicious is lying! It’s an acquired taste but it should be bearable. Now, if it has a really bad odor, weird color, or it tastes sour, your partner should get checked or change their diet. According to Healthline, there are allegedly some foods that can make the taste of his cum better.

“The alleged items that may help make the flavor of semen a little more tolerable include:

• celery
• parsley
• wheatgrass
• cinnamon
• nutmeg
• pineapple
• papaya
• Oranges”

Tips: When you’re giving him a blowjob, try to get his dick as far back down your throat so that your mouth doesn’t have time to taste his cum. Letting it sit in your mouth can make you want to gag. Another trick, is to get your mouth super wet with saliva so that when it’s time to swallow, it’ll be easier to go down.

2. Jerk if off onto your Boobs

Another classic way to play with his cum is to jerk it onto your chest. This is a porn fantasy coming to life. When he’s about to cum, open your chest or if you’re familiar with yoga, try to aim for heart center. Create art with his cum and rub it all over as if you were rubbing lotion on yourself.

Tip: Get sexy with it! How does it feel to have hot cum drip down on your boobs? Embrace that feeling. Stare into his eyes while you rub his cum on your nipples. Feel free to put that finger in your mouth to drive him wild.

3. Let it Flow down to your Fingers

When you’re jerking him off and he’s about to cum, start to tighten your grip on his dick so that you have more control of where you want his cum to go. Try to aim it straight in the air. Then jerk him off slowly and sensually until he cums. Let the cum shoot up and drip all over your hands creating a cum waterfall.

Tip: This can be sexy when you’re edging him. That is when you jerk him off until brink of cumming and then you stop abruptly. Edging will make his orgasm feel more intense. Once the cum is on your fingers, jerk him off slowly until he can’t take it anymore. Watch edging videos on porn to see what that looks like.

4. The Money Shot

The Money Shot or also known as a facial in porn is when he ejaculates onto your face. Also another porn fantasy coming to real life. Brace yourself when he’s ready to cum because cum is unpredictable. It can shoot one way one day and then another day, it’s shooting at an angle with extra force. Watch out for your back walls! Men are visual creatures and will love this! Just be prepared for it to get into your eyes which can have you walking around with pink eyes. Keep eye drops close by. Then check yourself out in the mirror because you’ll look beautiful!

Tip: One way to make this real sexy is by verbally telling him to cum on your face right before he orgasms. He’ll be so turned on from this confidence he won’t know what to do. This is also a great moment for you to feel empowered. You asked for it and you’re getting it.

5. Spit

Don’t make the mistake of hawking a loogie on the dick. That is an awkward silence you don’t want to have. Oh, you’d never do that? Okay then it’s just me…

To make spitting sexy, when he cums in your mouth, continue to suck his dick but release the cum out of your mouth slowly. Let it drip out of your mouth while also producing more saliva with it. It’ll make his dick extra wet! Continue to do this until his dick is sensitive.

Tip: Some men like the actual noise of the spitting so check in with your partner to make it the best experience for both of you.

6. Have him Cum on your Booty

Lastly, another way you can play with his cum is by letting him cum on your booty. Sounds basic but it’s kinkier than you think.This is great for people who love their ass! It’s your time to shine.

Tip: If you’re comfortable, have him cum in between your cheeks so that his cum is dripping down to your pussy. It’s a beautiful sight.

It’s the small decisions we make for ourselves in the bedroom that empower us in the long run. First you’re telling him where you want his cum to go. Next, you’re telling him you don’t like the way he’s been using his tongue. Small steps, baby!

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