Masturbating Sex Toys for Beginners

Okay I’m realizing not everyone started masturbating at the age of 12 like I did but, hey the fact that you’re starting now is all that matters. I’m so proud of you for even having the curiosity of pleasure!

Masturbating means to stimulate ones own genitals for sexual pleasure.

Masturbating means to stimulate ones own genitals for sexual pleasure. Keyword here is “sexual pleasure” and that definition is different for everyone. One way of masturbating can turn someone on while it can turn someone else off.

Masturbating is amazing in that there are so many ways you can masturbate!

You can take it old school and use your hands, use toys, do it with a partner, or use household objects like pillows, etc. There’s an infinite way of masturbating and there is no right way. It’s worth to try all the ways until you find something you find extreme pleasure in.

Not only does masturbating come with great health benefits but I find it helps with your self-esteem and your sex life. With masturbating you’re essentially touching yourself and giving yourself pleasure because you want to feel good. You feel you deserve to feel good. It’s time for you to worship your body. When you love your body, you tend to take care of it more and make sure that nothing bad happens to it.

When you masturbate, you also figure out what feels good for you. This can be great when it comes to having sex with your partner. You’ll know what works for you instead of lying there and having to pretend you like what he’s doing when you don’t. You’ll be able to take charge and say “Nope. I like it this way!”

Unfortunately, some of us grew up being told masturbating was wrong and disgusting and it’s just not true. We all do it! There’s some who do it everyday, once a week, once a month and sometimes never which is also okay. As long as you’re not doing it because someone told you it’s bad then it’s all good!

Planned Parenthood lists some benefits of masturbating…

• release sexual tension
• reduce stress
• help you sleep better
• improve your self-esteem and body image
• help treat sexual problems
• relieve menstrual cramps and muscle tension
• strengthen muscle tone in your pelvic and anal areas

Now time for my list! If you’re new to masturbating touching yourself with your bare hands can be awkward at first. Although, I do recommend you touching yourself that way first, it’s not ideal for some. Luckily for you, there are toys out there for everyone! The toys listed below range from comfortability all the way to power that a new masturbator can with stand.

I recommend this toy to all my friends who are looking for a new addition to their toy chest. It’s a must have! I take this bad boy out whenever I’m in a sexy mood. I love that this has 11 different intensities so if you’re new to the masturbating game, you can still feel the air pulse without it being so overbearing. I can’t wait for when you are ready for that intense setting though. Wooooooo. Oh last thing, this toy is waterproof! You can take this in the shower which makes the experience 100x better.

The price on this isn’t bad at all, I think it’s pretty reasonable. You can even use my discount code SEXISH on Shopsedure.com to get 10% off your order.

While this toy is disposable, it’s a great toy for beginners who’s experimenting with different sensations. This toy is 98% water which gives you another feel besides silicone. You can warm it in your hands or put in the fridge for temperature play.

Introducing LELO’s new toy, LELO DOT. Did you know masturbating doesn’t have to only be with your pussy? You can masturbate touching your titties, your stomach, your arms, whatever brings you pleasure. I love that this toy is different. Unlike other vibrators with a penis like shaped head, it has a pointy end which makes it easier to reach erogenous zones like your neck, behind your ear, your nipples, and in between your thighs. If you want to tease yourself before you get into it, this is the toy!

If it’s the scary shapes of toys that scare you to masturbate, try toys from Cute Little Fuckers. This toy shape allows you to easily grip it from behind as you move it along your body. Masturbating can be cute too!

Dame products is know for its simple design. Most of their toys don’t even look like vibrators which makes it easy to get away with if you forget to put it away after a session. This is great for beginners as it only has 3 speed variations. This takes fingering to another level. The pleasure is limitless.

I hope that you can find the perfect toy for you on your sexual journey. There are so many out there that it might take you a while to find the perfect one. But, what no one talks about is that the journey to finding one is actually the fun part! Part 2 of this post will be different ways to masturbate without a toy! How exciting?

Stay Sexy & Curious!

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